Hearing vs. Listening

What a woman says:

Cmon…This place is a mess! You and I need to clean. Your pants are
on the floor and you’ll have no clothes if we don’t do laundry now!

What a man hears:

C’MON….blah, blah, blah YOU AND I blah, blah, blah, blah, blah
ON THE FLOOR blah, blah, blah, NO CLOTHES blah, blah, blah,
blah, NOW!